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The Third Step
Defiance vs. "Dependence"


3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.


We live in an independent culture. We admire the "self-made man." America enshrines the "rugged individualist," and one of our nation's biggest holidays celebrates the anniversary of a "Declaration of Independence."

The myth of independence is sometimes seen in the slogan, "Religion is a crutch." Many people balk at the idea of allowing God to make decisions in their lives, and trusting in Divine Providence rather than worrying and stressing over the mortgage payments.

And yet no economy in the history of man has been more dependent and inter-related than ours is.

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, NY: A.A. World Services, 1981, p. 36-37.

Let's examine for a moment this idea of dependence at the level of everyday living. In this area it is startling to discover how dependent we really are, and how unconscious of that dependence. Every modern house has electric wiring carrying power and light to its interior. We are delighted with this dependence; our main hope is that nothing will ever cut off the supply of current. By so accepting our dependence upon this marvel of science, we find ourselves more independent personally. Not only are we more independent, we are even more comfortable and secure. power flows just where it is needed. Silently and surely, electricity, that strange energy so few people understand, meets our simplest daily needs, and our most desperate ones, too. Ask the polio sufferer confined to an iron lung who depends with compete trust upon a motor to keep the breath of life in him.

James 1:23-25 For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his natural face in a mirror; {24} for he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was. {25} But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does.

But the moment our mental or emotional independence is in question, how differently we behave. How persistently we claim the right to decide all by ourselves just what we shall think and just how we shall act. Oh yes, we'll weigh the pros and cons of every problem. We'll listen politely to those who would advise us, but all the decisions are to be ours alone. Nobody is going to meddle with our personal independence in such matters. Besides, we think, there is no one we can surely trust. We are certain that our intelligence, backed by willpower, can rightly control our inner lives and guarantee us success in the world we live in. This brave philosophy, wherein each man plays God, sounds good in the speaking, but it still has to meet the acid test: how well does it actually work? One good look in the mirror ought to be answer enough for any alcoholic

Should his own image in the mirror be too awful to contemplate (and it usually is), he might first take a look at the results normal people are getting from self-sufficiency. Everywhere he sees people filled with anger and fear, society breaking up into warring fragments. Each fragment says to the others, "We are right and you are wrong." Every such pressure group, if it is strong enough, self-righteously imposes its will upon the rest. And everywhere the same thing is being done on an individual basis. The sum of all this mighty effort is less peace and less brotherhood than before. The philosophy of self-sufficiency is not paying off. Plainly enough, it is a bone-crushing juggernaut whose final achievement is ruin.


The Care of God

You've trusted TV commercials, investment brokers, palm readers, health magazines, the Wall Street Journal, your "personal trainer," an expensive law firm, and still you are alone with your problems. Most people think the way you have been thinking up until now: "Looking out for #1." Not caring for others.

There is One who cares. There is someone you can trust. The God Who created you is a loving and personal God.

Make Your Decision!

"And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."
{23} "Now therefore," he said, "put away the foreign gods which are among you, and incline your heart to the LORD God of Israel." {24} And the people said to Joshua, "The LORD our God we will serve, and His voice we will obey!"
Joshua 24:15,23-24

And Elijah came to all the people, and said, "How long will you falter between two opinions? If the LORD is God, follow Him; but if Baal, follow him."
1 Kings 18:21

As Jesus passed on from there, He saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax office. And He said to him, "Follow Me." So he arose and followed Him.
Matthew 9:9

By faith Moses, when he became of age, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter, {25} choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin, {26} esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt; for he looked to the reward.
Hebrews 11:24-26

And He said unto another, "Follow Me." But he said, "Lord, allow me first to go and bury my father." But Jesus said unto him, "Follow Me; and let the dead bury their dead."
Luke 9:59; Matthew 8:22

For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.
Genesis 18:19


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